What Shall I Do?

Dear Dr Heartache, My husband Mark and I decided to take a weekend vacation to Cancun. We wanted to be alone far away from the crowds for a time
since we are so deliriously in love with each other. Once we got there, we plunged into having a great time.It was akin to heaven being with him there as anywhere.
We held hands as we walked along the seashore. The sky was clear and blue. The clouds were drifting by. I was swooning just to be near him. I cannot describe in words how absolutely loved he makes me feel. I adore him.
As we walked along blissfully oblivious to anything but each other, I noticed something I had never noticed before. Dr Heartache, since we married one year ago my life has been filled with complete ecstasy. Mark is every woman's dream;strong, dependable, attractive, intelligent, kind, compassionate, loving...anyway he is wonderful beyond description. Everything about him makes my heart beat madly..
I had never noticed before that every time we talk, it has always been me to start the conversation. Why is he this way? I want him to talk to me, to listen to me. Am I being unreasonable? Why doesn't he really listen to me?
Hurt and Confused in New Hampshire

Dear Hurt and Confused in New Hampshire,
I have no idea.
I do advise you to buy a book which addresses this;
The Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire.
(wait that might not be the book. I'll have to check and get back to you)
But maybe Mark is just a quiet type guy.
I am shocked that you would even consider this a problem.
Stop your whining and accept him for who he is and the way he is.
You really have no problem as long as he loves you.
Look on the bright side of this. He is there and you and he are deeply in
love. I really see no problem.
Hope this helped....

At Last My Computer is Fixed!!!

My dear Dr Heartache, my computer burned and went out. I think it needed a new power drive. I have no idea. Someone did the work for a fair price. So I'm back on high speed so I can blog and blog and blog and blog....anyway other things happened too that made my life very sad. But you know how God is....faithful and true. I'm better now. I go to You tube and listen to music.
I go to read blogs around the web...I have been more or less in seclusion for awhile only visiting and talking with my friends at Yahoo Answers and the big big Christian message board.
Anyway........
I have a unique problem. I was shopping one day at the mall. I was looking for a new purse and sunglasses. I was trying on sunglasses when I looked up and saw this man staring at me. He was staring I tell you. I felt it. But it was a good feeling I felt. I looked and there he stood. He smiled so I smiled back because he was so incredibly attractive. I was also attracted. He didn't know it but I almost died.
He began to walk toward me never taking his eyes off of me. I acted like I didn't notice. I kept trying on sunglasses. Suddenly he was next to me. I didn't say anything then he said.."Hello. Excuse me...but do you work here?" Can you imagine asking me such an obvious hello I would like to get to know you question? I felt my heart skip a beat but managed to appear calm..
I answered.. that I did not work there so why would I be carrying a purse if I was working? Hello? He smiled again and said.."Okay. I think you're beautiful. Will you go out with me?"
I fainted right into his arms. When I came to he said.."I take it the answer is yes?"
We've been seeing each other for 2 months now. We are deliriously happy and madly in love. Here is the problem. He is a believer in Taoism. Should I be concerned?
Wondering what to do in Maine

Dear Wondering what to do in Maine..
Okay...not sure but....
I think to a Taoist death is not really anything to be concerned about.
Take it from there.......oh dear....
Hope this helps.

I'm Desperately In Love Again!

Dear Dr Heartache.....Please help me with this....
He is so perfect! So good looking. He is so totally in command! I'm desperately, madly, completely, utterly, dizzingly, incomprehensibly, astonishingly deeply and forever hopelessly in love with every woman's dream. He is so attractive. He is so sure of himself. I am so impressed with his resume. God left nothing to chance when he created him. I live only to think of him. I breathe for him. Every tick tock of my wildly beating heart beats only for him.
I dream of the day when he will hold me close in his loving arms and tells me that he is mine forever more.
Oh Dr Heartache, what shall I do? It seems he doesn't even know I exist. How could I love someone so madly and crazily and still be alive? Shall I forget it or keep hoping he calls. He said he would, but it has been two weeks and nothing. I'm on the verge of collapse from longing and yearning.
Waiting for Romeo in Wyoming

Hmm...it sounds serious. But wait, I have good news.
It is the age old feeling. That thing that causes one to act like the world is filled with only two people...you and him. All I can tell you is if he doesn't call by tonight, let it go and forget it. Men are easily forgotten. Remember he is just a man.
If this doesn't help, then see a therapist immediately.

Dr Heartache I Need Help Now!

Dear Dr Heartache.....I Need Help....
This is a familiar problem, dear Dr Heartache. I'm in love again. He is so handsome, so manly, so dashing and daring. He is everything a woman could want in a man.
When I think of him, I get warm all over. I think of him day and night, night and day. It had to be him.
My knees knock together whenever he is near. I wonder if he could hear my heart beating wildly within.
My thoughts are only of him. When I walk through my garden I see his face. When I close my eyes at night I hear his voice. Do you think this is normal to be so in love with a man I haven't even formally met?
Dr Heartache, he is a co-worker of mine. He was just transferred to my town. I swoon when he passes by.
What shall I do? Surely this can't be one-sided. How could I be so attracted and he not be attracted also to me?
Lovesick in sunny California

Dear Lovesick in sunny California,
Hmm...sounds like you got it bad. Believe me he knows.
Love is fair, it always tells the other.
You know as the sages say..if love has struck in one heart, it has struck in the other heart too. So sit tight and love will work this out to its advantage.
Hope this helped...