Dear Dr Heartache, I caught my husband with another woman...............what shall I do? I'm devastated, deeply wounded, sorely pained, incredibly humiliated, unimaginably angry and totally discouraged. Is there any hope for us? Shall I move on somehow? He has begged me on bended knees to please forgive him, to try again. But I'm so hurt it doesn't seem this can happen. I forgive by faith because honestly I want to do worse to him. Please give me some advice.
Signed.MISERABLE
Dear Miserable.......first off you're on the right track by forgiving this miserable person for doing this to you. Yes, it is imperative that you move on and do it now. Consider that he might do it again. He might not only do it again, but humiliate you worse by marrying the woman. So, look at yourself clearly. Ask youself if you deserve such treatment.
Of course you don't!
There are a million fish in the sea so they say, so treat yourself to a good life without the cause of your deep pain; the cause being the man who did you wrong. Move on and ask God for strength to do it. God will always help you to the right thing. Have ahappy life without him!
Signed.Dr Heartache
