Dear Dr Heartache,
I cannot even begin to describe my sorrow.
My boyfriend Mark told me he loved another woman.
I am devastated and am thinking of suicide.
I cannot bear the thought of life without Mark.
We dated for four years after meeting at church.
We were planning a June wedding with five-hundred guests.
I am having my wedding gown made by a dress designer in Paris, France.
M y parents have spent all their savings to give me the most perfect wedding.
Now there will be no wedding day
since Mark told me loves someone else and cannot marry me.
I am heartbroken, crushed, depressed, in despair, sad, confused, bewildered,
embarrassed beyond description, humiliated and ashamed.
I had so many plans for our life together.
And I'm pregnant. He said that he would be glad to financially provide for our child after he is born.
I'm nearly wild with grief and pain because
Mark has decided to marry someone else.
I see no light at the end of the tunnel, only an approaching train.
What possible hope could there be for me?
Please help me!
About to Give Up On Life....
Dear About to Give Up On Life,
Suicide? Over a cheating ignorant selfish man? You should not insult and wound yourself more for his crime! Remove yourself by walking away with head high and mind intact though heart is smashed.
Suicide? Do you mean to tell me that what he did to you is not enough?
You want to add to what he did? Why?
I cannot imagine why you would want to help him destroy you.
Think of your dear loving parents who gladly were willing
to give all they had to give you a beautiful wedding.
If for nothing else, save your life for them.
Do it for yourself also.
Somewhere down the way is someone who will not do this to you.
Right now he is looking for you.
Don't let his search be in vain!
Help him find you!
God did you a favor by showing you now what is in this person you
(shudder) almost married.
Pity him. Pity the poor woman he is with.
Pity them....................... and then forget it. He is forgettable , you know.
Move on even though your heart is broken.
You will smile again.
Look at the bright side of it.
See how bright it is. He is not for you even though you came this far.
Your friends and others will understand.
They will be glad God snatched you from this fire that would eventually have consumed your life and perhaps others lives also.
Think of your child!
Be glad you are out of the burning house that would surely have destroyed you had you stayed.
Have a nice day and remember to trust in God.
