Dear Dr Heartache..Obama's supporters....sigh..

Dear Dr Heartache.....I Need Help....

I've been talking to different ones on the web about the coming election.........sigh...................... and am meeting such intolerance it is deplorable................sigh........I'm ready to quit.

Yes..... it's true.............I do think Obama is a leftist radical socialist Marxist who uses merciless tactics to promote his own agenda......and he has ties to severely anti-American people who think he is the messiah. I can't see anything else. I've tried to find good stuff on him,but with no success.

That is my take on him. And I'm a democrat.

If I say anything about Obama they disagree with, I never get a reasonable response. Instead I am brutally attacked with negative about Hillary and McCain and even myself.

(I took a presidential match test and imatched with Ron Paul. However they managed to keep him in the background.)

I pointed out Obama's political background with its ruthless tactics and I was told that I am a racist. I can't say anything that I might find wrong with Obama or I'n immediately called a racist. So, according to his followers I must approve of Obama or I am a racist?

This is unacceptable. I simply want a president who honors this country. Even if it is Winnie the Pooh.

What is your expert advice for this Obama opposer?

Against Obama for president in Illinois

Dear Against Obama for president in Illinois,

I understand, the same thing is happening to me.

The best thing to do is simply ignore as best you can their hate speech.

Try to focus on your candidate while ignoring theirs. Bring out the good things your candidate has in their history instead of pointing out the negative in the one you oppose. Dark things have a tendency to come to light. And the darkness can never comprehend it.

This thing will naturally play itself out.

Hope this helped........

Dear Dr Heartache.....I'm so distressed...

Dear Dr Heartache.....I Need Help....

My best friend Maria said she is in love with my boyfriend... I can't believe she could be so bold, brazen, shameless and two-timing after being my best friend.

I told her that she could have him and she said she already has him. She said he never loved me anyway and was glad to find a way out of our relationship.

Dr Heartache, do you think it could be because I gained forty pounds since last summer after I came back from Peru where I spent my vacation climbing?

Is this why he left me for her?

I did a lot of eating processed foods and now I can't fit into my clothes.

Dr Heartache, do you think if I lost the extra pounds Michael would take me back?

He and I had planned to marry someday. We planned on having a family, but now my world is bleak and sad since he left me for Maria.

Bleak and Sad in Oregon

Dear Bleak and Sad in Oregon,

If Michael loves you for your weight only, do you think you want a person who doesn't value you for yourself? Love never behaves this way. Your friend Maria is in for a rude awakening of she thinks he will value her for who she is. Of course how can he value a cheating betraying person? How can he even know what is valuable?

You need to move on with your head lifted up.

Somewhere out there is a man who will love you for who you are.

Move on and move on now. Yes, lose weight, not for him, for yourself and for those who love you.

Hope this helped.

Dear Dr Heartache.....

Dear Dr Heartache.....I Need Help....

Let me get a hold of myself so I can tell you my sad sad sad story of love and pain. It concerns my fiancee Kevin.

We met one night while we were both attending a movie.

We happened to go to the popcorn stand at the same time. It was love at first sight! When I first saw him, I immediately thought of Nicholas Cage with a little bit of David Caruso and a touch of Harrison Ford. Can you imagine how I must have looked?I didn't speak for at least a full minute, I was so taken by his charm.

We've been dating for six months now. I'm delirious with joy. He says he loves me madly and that he has waited all his life for me to come along.

Here is the problem......

He say his life will really be fulfilled when he has tattooed his entire body with pictures of the Dali Llama.

Should I be concerned?

Bewildered, mystified and in love in Georgia..

Dear Bewildered, mystified and in love in Georgia,

I recommend the writings of Plato, in particular the Symposium

Plato maintained that we can only love what is lovely.

Okay!

Could you love a man whose entire body is tattooed

with pictures of the Dali Llama?

For whatever reason?

I suppose he wants to have children?

Sounds like you have your work cut out for you.

The only advice I can give in this very unusual case is

bite your tongue and marry him......

or leave for greener pastures.

You don't have many options.

Not unless you can get him to agree to therapy.

Hope this helps...